So, let’s just be real for a minute; does the Friend Zone actually exist?
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You’re talking to somebody that you’re quite attracted to and could see a potential future with (perhaps only a near future but a future nonetheless) and they tell you that they see you as a great friend and automatically you think FUCK! FRIEND ZONE! Eurgh. Grow up.
In my eyes I can’t see what’s so bad about that and if you take offence then you’re seriously not right in the ‘ed. Ok, granted it may feel a bit embarrassing that the person you’re attracted to only regards you as a friend but really and truly, what else are they going to call you? You’re not their partner so until then, friends it is.
Alternatively, should you be regarded as a friend for as long as you know this person then that too isn’t always a bad thing. I mean, there has to come a point where you look at the bigger picture. The one past your genitals…
From my perspective; my friendship is a very valuable thing so if you want to be friends then I’m afraid you’re going to have to earn it – if I regard you as a friend I’m going to have to trust you and trust isn’t something you just give out, it has to be gained (word to Teyana T) so I guess what I’m trying to say here is if I offer you my friendship you best be fucking grateful.
Personally, I find the general attitude toward the ‘Friend Zone’ extremely childish and tedious. I thought most people would rather form a friendship with someone but apparently not.
Friendship isn’t something you should detest. In fact, it should be looked upon as an honour.
This Friend Zone only exists if you allow it too. Firstly, people forget you don’t HAVE to be a friend to someone if you don’t really want to be, if you just wanted to hump and dump then simply move on. Secondly, unless you physically do something worth earning a label you’re never going to be more than a friend and thirdly, should there be a zone, YOU CAN FUCKING ESCAPE IT.
P.S. I still think this Friend Zone term is for people that can’t handle rejection. Seek help.